Category: Let's talk
Ok, I know this topic isn’t the greatest topic to talk about, but it’s something that I was thinking so I figured I’d mention it!
Why is it that after a child has been abused by there parents and/or parent some of them are afraid and some aren’t? I mean for example some parents instill the fear of death and children find ways to get back and some just freeze and follow what the parents want. I hope my question makes sense, but if it doesn’t then just let me know, thanks, Ray/dark angel!
Ray I suppose it all depends on the inner strength of the child and the type depth and frequency of the abuse,also during the abuse, the child will have learned to recognise the signs,that mean a beating was imminent..it's shocking how quickly they learn..I know people who have been badly abused and they learned very early on which really disturbed me...the constant fear of death ceases to scare a child,..from the moment they realise that the big scary monster never existed,and the best way to win is to live every minute and make a success of their lives...good question Ray...Alex..
Depends on the biology and the child's other experiences also.
it depends on if the child has some positive reinforcement, like maybe another relative whos trying to show them right from wrong. it could be too, that they realize that whats being done to them is wrong, so they try to get away from it.
hmm, it just amazes me to no end how abuse affects a person. It has different affects on everyone, or thoughs who have been abused.